Ghanaian counselor, Counselor Frank Adofoli has added his voice to the popular debate concerning changing people you love.
Most times, people are of the view that once they love others and there is something they don’t like about such people, they go to extent of changing these people from such behaviours and lifestyles.
However, the counselor holds a different view as he has stated that you can’t change people just because you love them.
The post he made reads;
“You can’t change people just because you love them. They rather can change themselves because they love you. If the one you are dating shows you their real character and you are not happy with it, talk to them about it, give them time to work on that. If with all the time, advice and effort, they are not changing for the better, it means they don’t love you and there is no need reporting them to their loved ones.
What you really need is counselling if you are not sure you are doing the right thing, or you want to find out whether they are the right person for you or not, instead of trying to change them into the right person for you.”
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